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Look for These foremost Aspects in Your Synastry Compatibility
These are the aspects to look for when comparing charts
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Aspects
for a couple's astrological compatibility.
Let's look first at the harmonious aspects you would like to have between these planets.
These aspects are the Trine, Sextile, and sometimes the Conjunct.
* Sun  and  Moon (represents man/woman)
* Sun  and Sun (natural affinity)
* Sun and Chiron (trustworthy)
* Moon  and Moon (Emotionally attuned)
* Moon  and  Ascendant or Descendant (a soul kinship)
* Moon and  Mars  (Adds some heat - conjunction can be too combative)
* Venusand  Mars (sexual, affectionate 
vibe)
* Venus  and  Moon (warm caring feelings)
* Venus  and  Mercury (conversations are 
more agreeable)
* Venus  and  Jupiter (Fun, Fun, Fun, Plus 
good money aspect )
* Venus  and  Sun (Love and appreciation of that person)
* Venus  and  Ascendant/Descendant (Attracted to the physicality of the person)
* Venus  and  Chiron (Very inevitable for 
relationships)
* Venus  and  Saturn (long term 
relationship)
* Venus  and   Uranus (exciting, 
spontaneous
* Venus  and  Neptune (dreamy 
romanticism)
* Venus  and  Pluto (intense love 
feelings)
* Mars  and  Ascendant/Descendant
* Mars and   Jupiter (Adds a lot of power in 
whatever you pick to pursue)
* Mars  and  Chiron (Fertile aspect !)
* Jupiter  and   Chiron (fortunate and blessed 
union)
* Jupiter  and  Sun  (Rose colored glasses - 
benefactor)
* Jupiter  and  Mercury (common spiritual 
beliefs)
* Jupiter  and   Ascendant (beneficial )
* Saturn  and   Moon (stability, 
commitment)
* Saturn  and  Ascendant (adds stability and security)
* Uranus, Neptune, Pluto and  any point in the chart is fine.
 The most prominent harmonious aspects to look for in a long term relationship and synastry compatibility are the Sun and Moon aspects, Venus to Mars/Sun/Ascendant, and Chiron to Venus/Sun/Moon/ Jupiter, and Neptune.  So look for these first.
Now the suspect some of the conjunct aspects are good "sometimes"  is because it depends on the  individual.  With Saturn, it delays, teaches and restricts - but it can also be a source of dependability and stability.  If you are someone who needs a lot of leisure in your relationship and doesn't like to be depended on too much, this aspect can feel too restrictive.  On the other hand if you are seeing for a companion who can be bring much needed stability to your emotions (moon), self expression (sun), or
to a relationship (Ascendant/descendant)  you might prefer this aspect.
Neptune on the other hand can be quite dreamy - to a fault.  Disillusionment and victimhood could be brought out in a relationship with this aspect (not to mention substance abuse).  With Uranus,  a conjunction could indicate many separations (say your partner was a pilot or traveled a lot on firm this wouldn't be so bad)  however, if you were someone who favorite a 9 to 5 partner, this could cause many problems.  And then there's Pluto well,  intensity is good for some things and not always good for others.....
Next we'll look at the aspects in synastry compatibility to Look Out For !   Yikes
Look for squares, oppositions, and sometimes the conjunct between you and your partner's  planets, especially between the outer planets (saturn, neptune, uranus, and pluto)  to your personal planets (sun, moon, mercury, venus, mars).   The missing planet, Jupiter, is a mixed bag.  At a square or opposite aspect it more or less adds arrogance, exaggeration, laziness, and overdoing.  Nothing too bad, but could add an annoying element to the mix.
 The most bright (to say the least) aspects to look for are from Saturn to Venus, Moon, and Chiron.  It is called the "heartbreak aspect" in some astrology books.  So look out for these !   The next most difficult are from Uranus because of the reversal or disjunction effect.  Pluto to your personal planets can be bring you  manipulation/possessiveness/jealousy/over-controlling. And Neptune again, can lead you down the road to dissolution and disillusions.
So as you can see squares and oppositions mostly denote a qoute area in a relationship.  However, it can also have a stimulating influence as well.  You must look to your synastry combinations to see how your squares and oppositions are working in your relationships.
 Next look at the average between the Sun and Moon. Take your sun/moon average and check to see if the other person's Sun or Moon makes a Hard aspect to it, such as; conjunct, square, opposition, sesquiquadrate, semi-square  within 8 degrees.  Then check his/hers  to yours.  merge the two midpoints, to get your combined midpoint, and check both sets of moons/suns to this point.   This adds power to the union to make it "official"  so to speak -  Not that it always ends in marriage, but there is rarely a merge out there that doesn't have some relationship here.   You can even check the
progressed  charts.  Progressed sun by forward or converse progression can make this aspect too, especially when the merge meets or when they become more committed.
Now, in assessing your synastry, if you were seeing for "Mr. Right, or Ms. Right" and it's prominent to have sparks in your relationship look for harmonious aspects bright venus with mars, pluto,  and uranus and Mars to jupiter, and ascendant.  If  you are seeing for a good companion and the sparks are not so prominent look for venus and moon, venus, saturn, sun, and ascendant.  If you want a relationship that isn't too predictable look for harmonious aspects with uranus.  If,  however, you love stability, longevity and security look to harmonious aspects with saturn.
Now remember, even the most romantic couples, even the couples' whose marriages have become golden, and even cinderella and prince charming, had some bright aspects in their synastry compatibility.  However, it makes for a more enjoyable relationship the more harmonious aspects you have.  And you have to settle what's prominent to you in a relationship, what you can overcome, and what you can put up with !
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